Ready for action with HKG
Took this photo with me in it as a mistake when HKG was posing
Tuesday 10 December 2013
Saturday 7 December 2013
More on the smell of pussy
So, thinking back to the study I referred to in my earlier blog that found that the most memorable thing men had from the first time they had sex with a woman was (roughly) "the smell of her pussy".....it begs the question as to why so many women are concerned (in a negative way) with vaginal odours?
And why do they use perfumed products, rather than bathing, to deal with it?
Do they really think men are sexually aroused by the smell of strawberry or roses?
I suppose that the truth of the matter is that they don't spend much time thinking about what causes sexual arousal in men. Their use of make-up attests to this. Have you ever heard a man say (except sarcastically) "that woman needs to use more make-up"?
For a short informative commentary on vaginal odours, see:
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Your-Vagina-Smell-Good
I had been wondering about how to describe the smell - and why it's so arousing. The article describes it as "musky"....and, of course that's very sexually arousing smell, as I suppose nature intends it to be - probably so because you know what's next.
And for something written by a female gynecologist that you can have your girlfriend read, see:
http://www.blogher.com/how-are-vaginas-supposed-smell
And why do they use perfumed products, rather than bathing, to deal with it?
Do they really think men are sexually aroused by the smell of strawberry or roses?
I suppose that the truth of the matter is that they don't spend much time thinking about what causes sexual arousal in men. Their use of make-up attests to this. Have you ever heard a man say (except sarcastically) "that woman needs to use more make-up"?
For a short informative commentary on vaginal odours, see:
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Your-Vagina-Smell-Good
I had been wondering about how to describe the smell - and why it's so arousing. The article describes it as "musky"....and, of course that's very sexually arousing smell, as I suppose nature intends it to be - probably so because you know what's next.
And for something written by a female gynecologist that you can have your girlfriend read, see:
http://www.blogher.com/how-are-vaginas-supposed-smell
Sunday 27 October 2013
Another interesting week in Hong Kong (mid. Oct./13)
On my previous visit to Hong Kong, I raised the idea with HKG of having another woman join us. Knowing my stamina - and I suppose being interested in seeing what might happen - she arranged for one of her friends to join us for dinner.
After a very pleasant meal, we asked the young woman/girl at the cash to take a photo of the three of us...and, being the helpful sort, after she took the photo she checked to make sure it was OK....but what came up on my camera was the photo at the top of this blog (which I had taken the previous evening). I don't know if she has recovered yet, but I did get my camera back quickly.
Unfortunately, her friend couldn't get her mind around the concept of a threesome. Perhaps she might have felt differently if she had seen the photo in question(?).
This time, HKG (who is now 44 - and always "in the mood"), volunteered another friend, Ruth, who, on learning that I would soon be visiting, had suggested that she might be interested in joining us. She wasn't specific as for what, but it seemed worth pursuing.
So we made arrangements to have her join us for dinner last Saturday evening.
I spoke with her on the phone earlier in the day and arranged to meet her at the nearby Tin Hau MTR station at 8 p.m. - and then walk over to the restaurant together. At about 7:45 she texted me that she had just got off work & was headed home to change....but it went quickly downhill from there. Eventually, around 10 p.m. HKG, who by this time was beside herself, got Ruth on the phone - & she admitted that she had had a last minute panic attack.
So we made the best of the evening, with a late dinner followed by some activities of mutual interest. These two photos might give you a general idea. Neither were taken at the restaurant.
After a very pleasant meal, we asked the young woman/girl at the cash to take a photo of the three of us...and, being the helpful sort, after she took the photo she checked to make sure it was OK....but what came up on my camera was the photo at the top of this blog (which I had taken the previous evening). I don't know if she has recovered yet, but I did get my camera back quickly.
Unfortunately, her friend couldn't get her mind around the concept of a threesome. Perhaps she might have felt differently if she had seen the photo in question(?).
This time, HKG (who is now 44 - and always "in the mood"), volunteered another friend, Ruth, who, on learning that I would soon be visiting, had suggested that she might be interested in joining us. She wasn't specific as for what, but it seemed worth pursuing.
So we made arrangements to have her join us for dinner last Saturday evening.
I spoke with her on the phone earlier in the day and arranged to meet her at the nearby Tin Hau MTR station at 8 p.m. - and then walk over to the restaurant together. At about 7:45 she texted me that she had just got off work & was headed home to change....but it went quickly downhill from there. Eventually, around 10 p.m. HKG, who by this time was beside herself, got Ruth on the phone - & she admitted that she had had a last minute panic attack.
So we made the best of the evening, with a late dinner followed by some activities of mutual interest. These two photos might give you a general idea. Neither were taken at the restaurant.
I've got a new hot one lined up for my next trip. More about her in another blog.
Saturday 14 September 2013
Friday 28 June 2013
Now who would miss masturbation?
That may seem an odd question, but I notice that since I went into semi-retirement I've become a lot more sexually active. So much so that I'm reluctant to take matters into my own hands (pun intended).
I mean if you've potentially got something coming up every second day (or expect to), you're inclined to preserve your (sexual) energy. But I do miss the buzz.
I mean if you've potentially got something coming up every second day (or expect to), you're inclined to preserve your (sexual) energy. But I do miss the buzz.
The absence.......
....of readers' comments on these blogs is somewhat perplexing.
You would think that at the very least a few readers would become incensed at whatever I have to say....or maybe people just come here for the photos?
You would think that at the very least a few readers would become incensed at whatever I have to say....or maybe people just come here for the photos?
Monday 13 May 2013
Penis enlargement - experimenting
So in the "Does size matter?" blog, I mentioned that I'd been experimenting with penis enlargement techniques & that I'd comment on what I'd found.
There are all sorts of penis enlargement products on the internet. If you search around a bit for commentary, you'll see that most are, to say the least, suspect. However, a couple of years ago, I purchased one of those stretchers, on the basis that if you think of the ligaments which attach the penis to the pubic bone, increasing length should be possible (especially since I've read that doctors have been able to stretch people's legs, which also involves stretching bone - not quickly mind you, but over a period of years). In any event, I found the attaching strap to be a bit painful for the hours of use that were said to be required & so eventually purchased another model with a round rubber strap, which is a lot more comfortable to wear.
Unfortunately, wearing something of this nature also reduces your mobility, so much so in my case that I tore a muscle which attaches to the pubic bone when attempting to jump across a small ditch on a golf course. It was about two months before I recovered from that injury & somehow I never got back to using it again.
This February the thought crossed my mind again. Being hesitant to start using the stretching device again, I looked up a site I had come across a few years ago by the name of Thunders' Place. It's a forum for men involved in penis enlargement. I wasn't able to join the site when I originally came across it, as it had capacity limits, but those seem to have been solved & I was able to join. It has quite detailed exercise programs - and reports from thousands of members on their personal experiences & progress.
I started the exercises shortly thereafter - and about a week into the process came across a discussion on the site about the effectiveness of stretching devices. There was a comment from a member, who had obviously done a fair amount of research, that the devices do indeed work - and that you can expect 1/2" of increase in length for every 1000 hours of use. (I think you have to use it at least 8 hours a day to achieve that, as casual use is unlikely to have any effect, even if you keep it up for decades). So I dug out my stretcher and on Feb. 20th started using it for as much as I could each day. As a practical matter I found that I could manage 12 hours per day when not travelling, but only about 8 hours a day when my ladyfriend is in town (as it can leave you a bit sore & recovery time isn't instant). And I've since really not done a lot in the way of enlargement exercises, maybe once week for 5 minutes, but that's about it.
I'll comment on length gains a little further on, but the most immediate result was a noticeable increase in girth, which many members at Thunder's Place have commented on. It's an emotionally satisfying "quick win".
Which leads me to comment on the USA Today article in my previous blog - and to a reaction I had when I saw an older man at a sauna in Sacramento a few months ago. Although he had a reasonably long penis, there was something unexciting about it. It was because it was thin. It could be that thin just isn't "male". I'm not sure. But it may be a corollary to the finding in the USA Today article that anything over 3" in length will do .
As to gaining length, I'll measure on May 20th, being 90 days (and about 1000 hours of usage) after my start on Feb. 20. I expect that it'll be a little short of the predicted 1/2" increase (although I'm already about 3/4" longer when in the stretcher). The increase in girth is most noticeable - and that's very satisfying.
There are all sorts of penis enlargement products on the internet. If you search around a bit for commentary, you'll see that most are, to say the least, suspect. However, a couple of years ago, I purchased one of those stretchers, on the basis that if you think of the ligaments which attach the penis to the pubic bone, increasing length should be possible (especially since I've read that doctors have been able to stretch people's legs, which also involves stretching bone - not quickly mind you, but over a period of years). In any event, I found the attaching strap to be a bit painful for the hours of use that were said to be required & so eventually purchased another model with a round rubber strap, which is a lot more comfortable to wear.
Unfortunately, wearing something of this nature also reduces your mobility, so much so in my case that I tore a muscle which attaches to the pubic bone when attempting to jump across a small ditch on a golf course. It was about two months before I recovered from that injury & somehow I never got back to using it again.
This February the thought crossed my mind again. Being hesitant to start using the stretching device again, I looked up a site I had come across a few years ago by the name of Thunders' Place. It's a forum for men involved in penis enlargement. I wasn't able to join the site when I originally came across it, as it had capacity limits, but those seem to have been solved & I was able to join. It has quite detailed exercise programs - and reports from thousands of members on their personal experiences & progress.
I started the exercises shortly thereafter - and about a week into the process came across a discussion on the site about the effectiveness of stretching devices. There was a comment from a member, who had obviously done a fair amount of research, that the devices do indeed work - and that you can expect 1/2" of increase in length for every 1000 hours of use. (I think you have to use it at least 8 hours a day to achieve that, as casual use is unlikely to have any effect, even if you keep it up for decades). So I dug out my stretcher and on Feb. 20th started using it for as much as I could each day. As a practical matter I found that I could manage 12 hours per day when not travelling, but only about 8 hours a day when my ladyfriend is in town (as it can leave you a bit sore & recovery time isn't instant). And I've since really not done a lot in the way of enlargement exercises, maybe once week for 5 minutes, but that's about it.
I'll comment on length gains a little further on, but the most immediate result was a noticeable increase in girth, which many members at Thunder's Place have commented on. It's an emotionally satisfying "quick win".
Which leads me to comment on the USA Today article in my previous blog - and to a reaction I had when I saw an older man at a sauna in Sacramento a few months ago. Although he had a reasonably long penis, there was something unexciting about it. It was because it was thin. It could be that thin just isn't "male". I'm not sure. But it may be a corollary to the finding in the USA Today article that anything over 3" in length will do .
As to gaining length, I'll measure on May 20th, being 90 days (and about 1000 hours of usage) after my start on Feb. 20. I expect that it'll be a little short of the predicted 1/2" increase (although I'm already about 3/4" longer when in the stretcher). The increase in girth is most noticeable - and that's very satisfying.
Does size matter?
There was article on this subject in USA Today a short while back. Here's the link:
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/04/08/size-male-attractiveness/2063951/
And just in case the link expires, here's the article:
So much for that nice smile and neat haircut -- women are indeed looking for a well-endowed guy, suggests an Australian study of male attractiveness.
Since Darwin, biologists have studied the role of female "mate choice" in species ranging from fruit flies to people, generally finding a fondness among women for taller guys with broader shoulders. Evolutionary biologists have also pointed to the relatively-larger size of human male genitalia compared to our ape cousins to suggest a link there as well.
On the question of whether "size matters" to human women, however, the results have been mixed. Until now, suggests a team led by biologist Brian Mautz, of the University of Ottawa, Canada, in a study published Monday in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science.
"The big message is that that penis size does matter for attractiveness," Mautz says. "It does interact with height and shoulders though, so it matters more to taller guys that to shorter ones."
In the study, the researchers showed a series of life-size cut-out images of variously-sized men viewed by 105 heterosexual Australian women ages 18 to 53. The women, who stood about 20 feet away from a movie screen to watch and rate videos depicting 343 varied male outlines in a non-aroused state, were told only that the study was measuring "male attractiveness." They also rated taller and more broad-shouldered men as more attractive, as in past studies, but being well-endowed mattered almost as much as height in the new study.
"It is a pretty unusual study, but sex and behavior are important parts of evolution for any species, so the results are worth noting," says evolutionary biologist Wyatt Anderson of the University of Georgia in Athens, who led the review of the study for the journal. "It was a well-controlled study and the reviewers all agreed with the conclusions they reported."
The attractiveness results, however, stopped increasing as fast past a certain length, about 3 inches, the study reports, supporting the idea that the results may have been more a matter of pleasing proportional size in the most attractive masculine shapes, Mautz says. "This is a first-time study, so we should be cautious."
"Another possibility is that females use previous sexual experiences to infer a link between penis size and (an orgasm)," the study added. However they didn't see a connection between a woman's age and the preference, which would argue against that conclusion.
The study authors acknowledge that modern culture may have played a role in what the women rated as attractive, but they also suggest that a preference for the well-endowed may have played a role in the evolution of the human male in prehistory. People have been wearing clothing for about 170,000 years, studies suggest.
One option for a future study would be to run the cut-outs by women from non-Western cultures, to see if they rate men the same, Mautz says.
"It's true that people have culture and it is very difficult to disentangle the effects of culture from evolution, but that doesn't mean that evolution isn't happening," says University of Minnesota professor Marlene Zuk, author of Paleofantasy: What Evolution Really Tells Us about Sex, Diet, and How We Live. "Absolutely there are limitations on the study, it isn't the final word, but it does point to evolution having an effect on humans."
"It certainly is a weakness of the study that we can't go back in time and see how it all played out," Mautz says. "The study also doesn't say anything about what women would find attractive in the future either."
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I was most intrigued to read that anything over 3" will do...well, that's not quite what it says, but you get the idea.
I've been experimenting with penis enlargement techniques and will report in my next blog on my experiences.
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/04/08/size-male-attractiveness/2063951/
And just in case the link expires, here's the article:
So much for that nice smile and neat haircut -- women are indeed looking for a well-endowed guy, suggests an Australian study of male attractiveness.
Since Darwin, biologists have studied the role of female "mate choice" in species ranging from fruit flies to people, generally finding a fondness among women for taller guys with broader shoulders. Evolutionary biologists have also pointed to the relatively-larger size of human male genitalia compared to our ape cousins to suggest a link there as well.
On the question of whether "size matters" to human women, however, the results have been mixed. Until now, suggests a team led by biologist Brian Mautz, of the University of Ottawa, Canada, in a study published Monday in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science.
"The big message is that that penis size does matter for attractiveness," Mautz says. "It does interact with height and shoulders though, so it matters more to taller guys that to shorter ones."
In the study, the researchers showed a series of life-size cut-out images of variously-sized men viewed by 105 heterosexual Australian women ages 18 to 53. The women, who stood about 20 feet away from a movie screen to watch and rate videos depicting 343 varied male outlines in a non-aroused state, were told only that the study was measuring "male attractiveness." They also rated taller and more broad-shouldered men as more attractive, as in past studies, but being well-endowed mattered almost as much as height in the new study.
"It is a pretty unusual study, but sex and behavior are important parts of evolution for any species, so the results are worth noting," says evolutionary biologist Wyatt Anderson of the University of Georgia in Athens, who led the review of the study for the journal. "It was a well-controlled study and the reviewers all agreed with the conclusions they reported."
The attractiveness results, however, stopped increasing as fast past a certain length, about 3 inches, the study reports, supporting the idea that the results may have been more a matter of pleasing proportional size in the most attractive masculine shapes, Mautz says. "This is a first-time study, so we should be cautious."
"Another possibility is that females use previous sexual experiences to infer a link between penis size and (an orgasm)," the study added. However they didn't see a connection between a woman's age and the preference, which would argue against that conclusion.
The study authors acknowledge that modern culture may have played a role in what the women rated as attractive, but they also suggest that a preference for the well-endowed may have played a role in the evolution of the human male in prehistory. People have been wearing clothing for about 170,000 years, studies suggest.
One option for a future study would be to run the cut-outs by women from non-Western cultures, to see if they rate men the same, Mautz says.
"It's true that people have culture and it is very difficult to disentangle the effects of culture from evolution, but that doesn't mean that evolution isn't happening," says University of Minnesota professor Marlene Zuk, author of Paleofantasy: What Evolution Really Tells Us about Sex, Diet, and How We Live. "Absolutely there are limitations on the study, it isn't the final word, but it does point to evolution having an effect on humans."
"It certainly is a weakness of the study that we can't go back in time and see how it all played out," Mautz says. "The study also doesn't say anything about what women would find attractive in the future either."
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I was most intrigued to read that anything over 3" will do...well, that's not quite what it says, but you get the idea.
I've been experimenting with penis enlargement techniques and will report in my next blog on my experiences.
Tuesday 9 April 2013
In the mood, but no luck
So I finally made it to the Aqua Day Spa (in San Diego, where I'm golfing for the week) late Sunday afternoon.
I was in the mood for older uncut Asian, and while there were a few uncut men around, all were Caucasian or black...and a bit on the young side. Eventually, a 30ish Japanese turned up - and was friendly enough, he seemed totally oblivious to why everyone else else was there - and to my interest in his foreskin.
After an hour and half of steam, hot tub and showering I left for the Karl Strauss brew pub, dinner and my Wall Street Journal.
I was in the mood for older uncut Asian, and while there were a few uncut men around, all were Caucasian or black...and a bit on the young side. Eventually, a 30ish Japanese turned up - and was friendly enough, he seemed totally oblivious to why everyone else else was there - and to my interest in his foreskin.
After an hour and half of steam, hot tub and showering I left for the Karl Strauss brew pub, dinner and my Wall Street Journal.
Sunday 7 April 2013
Ebbing & flowing
I'm in San Diego for a few days & was on my way down to Aqua Day Spa, which I think is Korean owned and caters to an Asian crowd - to see what might be available. It might have been me - or the heavy traffic I was stuck in, but I thought "Do I really want to do this?" and after debating the issue with myself for a minute, decided to take the next exit off the I5 and head over to one of the wine speciality retailers to select a few Napa cabs to take back with me and then have a quiet dinner with my Wall Street Journal.
I had the same feeling when driving back from San Diego in February when I had promised myself that I would check out every rest stop on the I5 through California, Oregon & Washington. Admittedly, the weather was somewhat against hanging around outside (& you do need to be prepared to hang around - the action can be very sporadic), but it does occur to me that my moods & my sex drive do ebb & flow. I'm not sure if that's solely a function of age (& of being human).
I say that because in places like Moscow I never missed a weekend at the public washrooms. They were large & there were always lots of men coming & going - and I was certain to find two or three of interest. And, of course, they were all uncut, so unless I was very short of time, I was never disappointed.
So maybe it's the amount of time & effort that I need to put into it here that's wearing on me.
I had the same feeling when driving back from San Diego in February when I had promised myself that I would check out every rest stop on the I5 through California, Oregon & Washington. Admittedly, the weather was somewhat against hanging around outside (& you do need to be prepared to hang around - the action can be very sporadic), but it does occur to me that my moods & my sex drive do ebb & flow. I'm not sure if that's solely a function of age (& of being human).
I say that because in places like Moscow I never missed a weekend at the public washrooms. They were large & there were always lots of men coming & going - and I was certain to find two or three of interest. And, of course, they were all uncut, so unless I was very short of time, I was never disappointed.
So maybe it's the amount of time & effort that I need to put into it here that's wearing on me.
Saturday 16 March 2013
My attempt to communicate
A while back I wrote on "An imperfect market"........and while thinking about the communication voids inherent in this issue, decided I'd make an attempt to tell others what I'm interested in doing.
I went through a bunch of options and finally decided to print out a pair of large red lips (see photo below) & put it on the dash just inside the windshield of my car when sitting around my usual spot at Central Park..
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Days later....well, that doesn't work so well, as it's difficult for passers-by in their cars to see properly - and it also attracts some unwanted attention....so I'm having a t-shirt made up with the lips on the front. I'll try wearing it discreetly under a shirt - & I can open few buttons when I'm near someone of interest.
I know all this sounds a bit crazy, but communicating what you're looking for a is a difficult task in semi-public spots...(to be continued)....
I went through a bunch of options and finally decided to print out a pair of large red lips (see photo below) & put it on the dash just inside the windshield of my car when sitting around my usual spot at Central Park..
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Days later....well, that doesn't work so well, as it's difficult for passers-by in their cars to see properly - and it also attracts some unwanted attention....so I'm having a t-shirt made up with the lips on the front. I'll try wearing it discreetly under a shirt - & I can open few buttons when I'm near someone of interest.
I know all this sounds a bit crazy, but communicating what you're looking for a is a difficult task in semi-public spots...(to be continued)....
Sunday 17 February 2013
The acroposthion
One thing fascinated me about Russia - and that was how many men had such long foreskins.
Since foreskin keeps the head a lot more sensitive, uncut men tend to reach orgasm a lot more quickly than those who are circumcised. And that meant that many public toilet encounters were all too brief. In busy spots & on busy days, I could make up for that with quantity, but it wasn't always that easy. So I became especially fond of men with a lot of extra foreskin, where working it back with my tongue would extend the whole encounter.
For some interesting (to me, nostalgic) photos of what I'm referring to, see:
http://www.acroposthion.com/
You will also be interested to see my find on double foreskin at:
http://asolitarypursuit.blogspot.ca/2015/12/double-foreskin-so-i-feel-sort-of.html
For commentary & photos on what it goes into best, see:
http://asolitarypursuit.blogspot.ca/2016/03/pussy-versus-cunt.html?zx=1a0cb5230dbc1273
To see lots of foreskin photos, see: http://yesforeskin.tumblr.com/archive
Since foreskin keeps the head a lot more sensitive, uncut men tend to reach orgasm a lot more quickly than those who are circumcised. And that meant that many public toilet encounters were all too brief. In busy spots & on busy days, I could make up for that with quantity, but it wasn't always that easy. So I became especially fond of men with a lot of extra foreskin, where working it back with my tongue would extend the whole encounter.
For some interesting (to me, nostalgic) photos of what I'm referring to, see:
http://www.acroposthion.com/
You will also be interested to see my find on double foreskin at:
http://asolitarypursuit.blogspot.ca/2015/12/double-foreskin-so-i-feel-sort-of.html
For commentary & photos on what it goes into best, see:
http://asolitarypursuit.blogspot.ca/2016/03/pussy-versus-cunt.html?zx=1a0cb5230dbc1273
To see lots of foreskin photos, see: http://yesforeskin.tumblr.com/archive
Sunday 13 January 2013
The smell of pussy
I just happened to be on the Phero Talk site and saw that there were numerous questions about the smell of pussy, one of which suggested that if it smelled fishy, it was "bad & should be thrown away".
To which my response was:
I'm not sure if that was a serious comment, but in my experience it invariably arises from intercourse (presumably from the mixture of semen & vaginal fluid, but I don't know the biochemical reason) - and will be much stronger where there have been multiple sexual partners over a short period of time.
As a related thought, I recollect seeing an article several years ago that was based on an extensive survey of men's recollections of their first sexual experience with a woman. At the top of the list was how erogenous the smell of the woman's pussy was. And I must admit that it's still my primary interest with any woman I find sexually attractive.
To which my response was:
I'm not sure if that was a serious comment, but in my experience it invariably arises from intercourse (presumably from the mixture of semen & vaginal fluid, but I don't know the biochemical reason) - and will be much stronger where there have been multiple sexual partners over a short period of time.
As a related thought, I recollect seeing an article several years ago that was based on an extensive survey of men's recollections of their first sexual experience with a woman. At the top of the list was how erogenous the smell of the woman's pussy was. And I must admit that it's still my primary interest with any woman I find sexually attractive.
Granny sex, but with a real granny
Still being "alive and well", I regularly post on Craigslist &, sporadically, on Plenty of Fish, seeking females who are also alive & well. So the other day I received a reply from a woman whose profile says she's 73. She looked like she might still have a few miles left in her, so for some reason I replied & arranged to meet her for coffee. It turns out that she's actually 78, but put a younger age in her profile because she thought no-one would reply to a 78 year old. I was sufficiently intrigued that I met her for dinner that same evening - and one thing led to another.
It's common wisdom that most women start to lose interest in sex after menopause - and while she's in great shape physically, to encounter someone her age as insatiable as a 25 year old was quite astounding.
I'll be away for a month or so, but if I can arrange to see her again before I leave, I'll try to get her to pose for some photos.
[Addendum in Nov./13 - I see from the stats that this post is now among the most viewed. It's really a bit of unfinished business, as I never did follow up with her - something I may yet do. My blogs are all over the map....and to get a tour of the waterfront, scan the list, starting with the most recent. If you want to pursue any of the topics covered, leave a comment or send me a note.]
It's common wisdom that most women start to lose interest in sex after menopause - and while she's in great shape physically, to encounter someone her age as insatiable as a 25 year old was quite astounding.
I'll be away for a month or so, but if I can arrange to see her again before I leave, I'll try to get her to pose for some photos.
[Addendum in Nov./13 - I see from the stats that this post is now among the most viewed. It's really a bit of unfinished business, as I never did follow up with her - something I may yet do. My blogs are all over the map....and to get a tour of the waterfront, scan the list, starting with the most recent. If you want to pursue any of the topics covered, leave a comment or send me a note.]
Tuesday 8 January 2013
Very few Profile views
Just checking the stats - and I see that only about 5% of readers have viewed my profile.
It could be that they're just here for the photos. I have few others I could put up....and I suppose I could take more. Oddly enough, it's more difficult to get men to pose than women....as you can see from my selection.
But I'm not sure why that is.
It could be that they're just here for the photos. I have few others I could put up....and I suppose I could take more. Oddly enough, it's more difficult to get men to pose than women....as you can see from my selection.
But I'm not sure why that is.
Monday 7 January 2013
"An imperfect market".....
....is the term that economists might well use when describing either the collection of men looking for sexual contact with other men at a secluded area of your local public park or the men & women seeking each other on your local Craigslist. I see that on Investopedia it's defined as "A market where information is not quickly disclosed to all participants in it and where the matching of buyers and sellers isn't immediate."
I was discussing this with a friend today, using the example of the men sitting in their cars on the west aisle of the Boundary Road parking lot at Central Park. (It's the rainy season, so almost no-one is venturing onto the trails of the wooded areas).
Not only do they not seem to appreciate that no-one can see through the glare of their rolled up car windows. but there's really no mechanism to indicate what they're interested in. In my case, it's older uncircumcised otherwise straight men who are interested in getting sucked off. I'll admit that's a rather small sub-group, which is difficult to find....but perhaps that's why the "imperfect market" analysis springs to mind.
I suppose it could be addressed through the use of indicators, such as coloured decals placed disceetly on the right, middle or left of the car dash, but that begs the question of how such a code would be disseminated.
Any thoughts/suggestions?
I was discussing this with a friend today, using the example of the men sitting in their cars on the west aisle of the Boundary Road parking lot at Central Park. (It's the rainy season, so almost no-one is venturing onto the trails of the wooded areas).
Not only do they not seem to appreciate that no-one can see through the glare of their rolled up car windows. but there's really no mechanism to indicate what they're interested in. In my case, it's older uncircumcised otherwise straight men who are interested in getting sucked off. I'll admit that's a rather small sub-group, which is difficult to find....but perhaps that's why the "imperfect market" analysis springs to mind.
I suppose it could be addressed through the use of indicators, such as coloured decals placed disceetly on the right, middle or left of the car dash, but that begs the question of how such a code would be disseminated.
Any thoughts/suggestions?
Saturday 5 January 2013
More on "Toilet Sex in Hong Kong - not" & "Protocol at the Urinals"?
I see from the stats that these are by far & away my most two popular posts.
No-one has commented or rated either one, so I'm not sure why. But if anyone would like more on either topic, let me know.
No-one has commented or rated either one, so I'm not sure why. But if anyone would like more on either topic, let me know.
Friday 4 January 2013
Totally off the mark replies - and more
On an ongoing basis I keep ads on Craigslist, in my case seeking Asian women and older uncut Asian men.
Even though my ad for men says I'm only looking for Asian men over 55 who are uncut & otherwise straight, the overwhelming majority of responses I get are from openly gay circumcised Caucasian men in their 20s. What gives?
A friend of mine says it's because these people send out replies to almost every ad, presumably in the (vain) hope that the person posting the ad will actually be interested in quite the opposite of what they're ostensibly seeking. Possible, I suppose.
The replies to my ads for women fit into totally different categories. Firstly, there's the standard three or four from prostitutes. Then there's a predictable few from Caucasian women who write to advise me that I'll rot in hell - presumably because I note in my ad that I'm "partially attached".
I did have an interesting one from a Filipino woman a month or so ago. Interesting in that she didn't ask me what "partially attached" meant - and almost every woman does. She seemed like a nice person....and I was interested. So I said that I didn't want any misunderstanding to develop & I was concerned that she hadn't asked. And her reply was "my intention is boyfriend and girlfriend relationship only no more than that". So I met her. She was slightly plumper than I was hoping for, but she was clearly interested. So two nights later I took her out to dinner & then back to my place. She was terribly horny. She squealed like a stuffed pig and came rather quickly. All that was fine, but she then became very "needy", writing to me twice a day - and that's something I just wasn't willing to deal with.
So I'm out looking again.
Even though my ad for men says I'm only looking for Asian men over 55 who are uncut & otherwise straight, the overwhelming majority of responses I get are from openly gay circumcised Caucasian men in their 20s. What gives?
A friend of mine says it's because these people send out replies to almost every ad, presumably in the (vain) hope that the person posting the ad will actually be interested in quite the opposite of what they're ostensibly seeking. Possible, I suppose.
The replies to my ads for women fit into totally different categories. Firstly, there's the standard three or four from prostitutes. Then there's a predictable few from Caucasian women who write to advise me that I'll rot in hell - presumably because I note in my ad that I'm "partially attached".
I did have an interesting one from a Filipino woman a month or so ago. Interesting in that she didn't ask me what "partially attached" meant - and almost every woman does. She seemed like a nice person....and I was interested. So I said that I didn't want any misunderstanding to develop & I was concerned that she hadn't asked. And her reply was "my intention is boyfriend and girlfriend relationship only no more than that". So I met her. She was slightly plumper than I was hoping for, but she was clearly interested. So two nights later I took her out to dinner & then back to my place. She was terribly horny. She squealed like a stuffed pig and came rather quickly. All that was fine, but she then became very "needy", writing to me twice a day - and that's something I just wasn't willing to deal with.
So I'm out looking again.
Tuesday 1 January 2013
Accepting who you are
I'm not sure that's exactly the right title for my thought, but I commented a short time back that a number of men want to pretend that they're "there for some other reason".
Certainly if one's safety is at risk, I can understand that. But as I was reflecting on why that might be, it occurred to me that some of them may not be entirely comfortable with who they are....or something along that line. As you will have gathered from my earlier posts (& photos), my emotional & romantic responses are totally heterosexual, but I've been sucking cocks most of my life.....and I'm comfortable with that - & who I am.
Certainly if one's safety is at risk, I can understand that. But as I was reflecting on why that might be, it occurred to me that some of them may not be entirely comfortable with who they are....or something along that line. As you will have gathered from my earlier posts (& photos), my emotional & romantic responses are totally heterosexual, but I've been sucking cocks most of my life.....and I'm comfortable with that - & who I am.
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